Aram Andreasyan
May 8, 2025

Good Boss, Bad Boss | A short story about trust and fear at work

Working with different types of leaders has shaped how I see leadership today. Their guidance didn’t just help me grow — it sharpened my instincts, expanded my perspective, and made me a mentor to others in turn. I’ve led discussions, built creative teams, and seen my work influence major companies. But even in a career filled with moments of pride, one shadow loomed large: micromanagement.

Micromanagement is more than a flawed leadership style — it’s a silent force that chips away at confidence and creativity. It whispers that you’re not trusted, even when your work speaks otherwise. In my experience, it doesn’t just slow progress; it dampens spirit. It’s a feeling many professionals know all too well, yet few dare to explore fully. This article is my attempt to do exactly that.

Aram Andreasyan

How Trust Gets Replaced by Doubt
Picture this: you’re in the flow of a project, working with passion and clarity. But before long, your efforts are constantly second-guessed. A new comment, an unexpected change, a never-ending stream of corrections — until doubt creeps in. You start wondering if you’re the problem. It’s not just frustrating; it’s emotionally draining.

Confidence Can Be Reclaimed
Micromanagement eats at your belief in yourself, but it doesn’t have to win. I began keeping a personal journal of small wins — tasks completed, ideas praised, progress made. Reviewing these moments reminded me of my value when others failed to see it. As a leader myself, I learned how powerful it is to simply say: “I trust your judgment.”

Creativity Needs Breathing Room
Ideas thrive in open space, not under watchful eyes. One of the most damaging effects of micromanagement is how it shrinks that space. In many of my projects, I saw how creativity disappeared not from lack of ideas but from fear of rejection. The solution? Create environments where people can experiment without being punished for imperfection.

The Cost of Mixed Messages
It’s maddening when a manager says one thing and does another. I’ve worked under leaders who praised innovation but dismantled every new idea, demanded speed yet buried us in approvals. It left everyone anxious and confused. I learned that clarity and consistency aren’t luxuries — they’re the core of respectful leadership.

Let People Grow or Watch Them Leave
Micromanagement doesn’t just hurt today’s tasks; it kills tomorrow’s potential. I’ve seen talented professionals shrink into silence, losing their drive. I’ve also seen the difference when leaders step back and support rather than supervise. In my leadership, I’ve prioritized trust, open conversation, and space to grow — and I’ve seen it pay off.

Sometimes Growth Means Walking Away
There are times when change from within isn’t possible. Leaving can be the strongest choice when you’ve tried everything and the walls still close in. I’ve had to make that choice. It’s not giving up; it’s choosing growth, dignity, and peace.

From Silent Frustration to Empowered Voice
What I’ve learned from years of both being managed and managing others is that leadership isn’t about control — it’s about trust. And when that trust is broken by fear, creativity and confidence suffer. But when leadership lifts people, everything changes. I’ve seen it. I’ve built it. And through every panel discussion I’ve led, every team I’ve managed, I’ve kept one goal in mind: to lead in a way that makes people feel seen, capable, and free to do their best work.

Aram Andreasyan
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